We live our own lives, dream our own dreams, we have goals which we want to achieve, or things which we would like to do before we die. We plan days, weeks and year in that way, working on things which will bring us closer to our goals.
Of course for sure our success is not as fixed as the northern star. Failure has been everyone’s part of life and will always be. Nothing great ever came easy. We had to work harder every now and then.
“The pessimist complains about the winds, the optimist expects them to change, but the realist adjusts the sails” – William Arthur Ward
Be a realist. Learn about every step which you are going to take. Know about its consequences. The things won’t change unless you work. Its your life. You are the creator of your own destiny. Be wise.
Whenever you are stuck in a problem, think about what created it and then take the next step to counter that. Many a times it may be our own mistakes. Get that? “Own mistakes!”?? Own your mistakes! You own every step that you take. Either it takes you near your destinations or away from it. It perfectly alright because we learn to live our life by living it!
Learn to be a realist, to counter our problems, find solutions to them. Calculate the pro and contra before you take a step. You are the captain of your ship, master of tour seas, creator of your own future and the one to take your own decisions. Find out which path leads where. Does it takes it to your destination? or makes you a wanderer? And if we become a lone wanderer, don’t forget to get a glimpse of the beauty of that path! 😉 It really has a lot to teach!
Just be cautious. Its perfectly fine even if we choose wrong path by mistakes. We will always learn. We will keep learning throughout our lives, even if we don’t realise it!
Face your challenges. Don’t be afraid of failure, just give your best!
Do you have any wise or ‘being realist’ experience where you calculated the pros and cons and took a right decision? Feel free to share your thoughts below!
Take care dear reader. Stay strong and love living! ✨