Realist

We live our own lives, dream our own dreams, we have goals which we want to achieve, or things which we would like to do before we die. We plan days, weeks and year in that way, working on things which will bring us closer to our goals.

Of course for sure our success is not as fixed as the northern star. Failure has been everyone’s part of life and will always be. Nothing great ever came easy. We had to work harder every now and then.

β€œThe pessimist complains about the winds, the optimist expects them to change, but the realist adjusts the sails” – William Arthur Ward

Be a realist. Learn about every step which you are going to take. Know about its consequences. The things won’t change unless you work. Its your life. You are the creator of your own destiny. Be wise.

Whenever you are stuck in a problem, think about what created it and then take the next step to counter that. Many a times it may be our own mistakes. Get that? “Own mistakes!”?? Own your mistakes! You own every step that you take. Either it takes you near your destinations or away from it. It perfectly alright because we learn to live our life by living it!

Learn to be a realist, to counter our problems, find solutions to them. Calculate the pro and contra before you take a step. You are the captain of your ship, master of tour seas, creator of your own future and the one to take your own decisions. Find out which path leads where. Does it takes it to your destination? or makes you a wanderer? And if we become a lone wanderer, don’t forget to get a glimpse of the beauty of that path! πŸ˜‰ It really has a lot to teach!

Just be cautious. Its perfectly fine even if we choose wrong path by mistakes. We will always learn. We will keep learning throughout our lives, even if we don’t realise it!

Face your challenges. Don’t be afraid of failure, just give your best!

Do you have any wise or ‘being realist’ experience where you calculated the pros and cons and took a right decision? Feel free to share your thoughts below!

Take care dear reader. Stay strong and love living! ✨

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  1. Wow… I live this write up so much….

    I guess i fall under optimistic and realist

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    1. Honey8 says:

      That’s really great! I appreciate you being YOU! πŸ˜‰
      Thanks for you lovely words. I am glad you liked the article.

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      1. Am highly happy you replied back. OK… Am here to read again… Been a while i saw you post

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      2. Honey8 says:

        Oh thank you. Keep smiling 😊

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      3. You welcome dear honey

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  2. robertcday says:

    Hey now, now – where’s my grass! πŸ˜„

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    1. Honey8 says:

      Aww i was just a bit late. βœ¨πŸ˜‰ Just grown friend! You can check it’s lovely sweet shining.. lemme know your review about the new grass! 🌱

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      1. robertcday says:

        I went there but I didn’t see grass? Direct link me? πŸ™‚

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      2. Honey8 says:

        Oopsie! πŸ˜‚ I was taking it in an indirect way! I thought you meant any of my post lol.. hehe … Sorry! πŸ™Œ

        Well the pic if grass.. i know.. I couldn’t take a nice one cause it’s summer.. dried ones. But i got nice shots in evening walk. πŸ˜ƒ I’ll upload it on the page soon. I dunno when .. i guess after 2 busy weeks! Haha πŸ˜„

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      3. robertcday says:

        You’re right to attend to your studies – they have to be higher priority than taking pictures of dried grass. πŸ™‚

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      4. Honey8 says:

        I’ll try to get nice grass ones the next time i go for a walk. 😊 It isn’t like that.. I’d love my hobbies to.. but yea.. studies has to be kept as higher priority πŸ˜…

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  3. robertcday says:

    I sometimes think that if I stay real – if I stick to reality – if I remain on the path that most people take – if I am conventional and normal then I will miss out on opportunities to experience the magic of soaring on the wings of imagination to destinations beyond the stars. Am I being silly?

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    1. Honey8 says:

      Oh of course no! You ain’t being silly friend 😊✨ you are being you!
      You know what, i appreciate that you said what you felt. Thanks for that.

      The post was just about facing challenges and dealing with them. To rake right decisions knowing pros and cons. For sure a realist can live in imagination like me πŸ˜… ✨❀😊

      Just stay on your path of life.. spend some time looking and embracing the beauty around! ❀✨ And learn to deal with difficulties in life. That’s it. And tbh you really do this everyday! Having different walks, you have a great eye that can get Awesome pics ❀✨

      Take care! And be you. I love that when people do! ✨✨

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      1. robertcday says:

        Thanks for taking the time to explain, Honey – appreciated. πŸ™‚
        And as far as being myself goes – I have no choice – everyone else is taken! πŸ˜€

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      2. Honey8 says:

        Yep! Be a better version of yourself every single day ! πŸ˜€ No problem you are always welcome! Keep soaring! ✨❀

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  4. Alexi says:

    Once I almost did something very drastic and regrettable but somehow at days end I was still contemplating whether I was going to cower away and let defeat rule over me or find inner strength to keep fighting.
    So in a way I am a realist because I made the decision to adjust the sails.

    This is a very wise and enlightening post dear friend β˜ΊοΈπŸ’–

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    1. Honey8 says:

      Thanks a lot dear friend! πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ Glad you liked the post!

      That’s sooo nice to hear dear 😊✨ congratulations that you’ve overcome that part and won a fight! I hope you may have learned a lot. Everything happens for good and teaches us something 😊

      Stay wise and strong ! πŸ™Œ Love living!! ✨

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      1. Alexi says:

        Your very welcome ☺️☺️
        I learnt a lot and I’m still learning.
        Yes I do agree that all of life’s experience are for a reason.
        😁😁 yes to life and staying wise and strong πŸ€—

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      2. Honey8 says:

        Aww that’s so sweet of you friend! Have a good day ahead β›… keep smiling! πŸ€—πŸ€—βœ¨

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      3. Alexi says:

        Have a great day too dear friend πŸ€—πŸ’ž

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      4. Honey8 says:

        πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜Šβœ¨βœ¨πŸ’•

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