Comparison!

Shine like a unique star!

This is something which almost everyone of us do.. if we go to a mall or for shopping, we compare between the products and then make our choices. We compare on the basis of our choices, which will last longer and something which will fulfil our basic need.

It’s good to compare between the products.. but when it comes to comparison between living souls, it is something wrong… 🙃

Each one of us is blessed with a gift. A gift which is hidden inside, something which we have to explore ourselves. We all are born with extra potential to excel in a particular field, in a direction for which our heart and mind agree.. a path which gives is self satisfaction.

We all are different. Entirely different from everyone. The goals of two people can be same… But never the direction of their heart and minds. We have different talents that can never be compared..

The only comparison that exist is between ‘past you’ and ‘present you’

Comparison between people and their talents never exist. The only comparison is about how much you’ve learned and grown. Compare if you’ve been better than yourself.

You are a different beam of light. You have your own colour, shine, brightness. You are travel in a different direction. Then how can you grade yourself on the others’ background?!

For the students studying in different schools, this one’s for you! – no grade sheet or result sheet is ever made that can reflect your exact potential and what you can do. Just a piece of paper and some marks are none to compare you from other souls. 😊

Work hard yourself on yourself for yourself! Be a better person that you were in the past! Learn new things everyday. Work hard every single day. Keep smilin’ readers. Cause I love your smile.. it’s beautiful! 😉

Realist

Face Challenges!

We live our own lives, dream our own dreams, we have goals which we want to achieve, or things which we would like to do before we die. We plan days, weeks and year in that way, working on things which will bring us closer to our goals.

Of course for sure our success is not as fixed as the northern star. Failure has been everyone’s part of life and will always be. Nothing great ever came easy. We had to work harder every now and then.

“The pessimist complains about the winds, the optimist expects them to change, but the realist adjusts the sails” – William Arthur Ward

Be a realist. Learn about every step which you are going to take. Know about its consequences. The things won’t change unless you work. Its your life. You are the creator of your own destiny. Be wise.

Whenever you are stuck in a problem, think about what created it and then take the next step to counter that. Many a times it may be our own mistakes. Get that? “Own mistakes!”?? Own your mistakes! You own every step that you take. Either it takes you near your destinations or away from it. It perfectly alright because we learn to live our life by living it!

Learn to be a realist, to counter our problems, find solutions to them. Calculate the pro and contra before you take a step. You are the captain of your ship, master of tour seas, creator of your own future and the one to take your own decisions. Find out which path leads where. Does it takes it to your destination? or makes you a wanderer? And if we become a lone wanderer, don’t forget to get a glimpse of the beauty of that path! 😉 It really has a lot to teach!

Just be cautious. Its perfectly fine even if we choose wrong path by mistakes. We will always learn. We will keep learning throughout our lives, even if we don’t realise it!

Face your challenges. Don’t be afraid of failure, just give your best!

Do you have any wise or ‘being realist’ experience where you calculated the pros and cons and took a right decision? Feel free to share your thoughts below!

Take care dear reader. Stay strong and love living! ✨